Real Talk with Zuby #393 Chandler Rogers - Porn Is Dangerous (But Not Why You Think)
Disclaimer: This episode contains sensitive discussions regarding pornography and its associated risks. It is intended for educational and informational purposes only. Listener discretion is advised.
Zuby sits down with Chandler Rogers to talk about his journey through pornography addiction — from early exposure and hidden shame to recovery. They explore how high achievers are often silently struggling, the rise of AI-generated content, and how digital dopamine is replacing real human connection. Chandler opens up about the emotional, relational, and ethical consequences of pornography, including its impact on intimacy and self-worth. They also discuss the shifting public attitude towards porn, how women are increasingly affected, and what genuine recovery and hope can look like. If you or someone you know is battling these issues, this conversation offers insight and a path toward real freedom.
Timestamps:
(00:00) Introduction
(01:04) Chandler’s story with porn
(04:08) Realizing it was addiction
(06:22) Shame, secrecy, and isolation
(10:04) High achievers struggle too
(15:30) AI-generated porn dangers
(19:30) Digital dopamine vs connection
(23:26) Porn's effects on life
(32:05) Ethics in porn industry
(35:39) Shift in public attitudes
(36:22) Women struggling with porn
(42:03) Porn vs real intimacy
(49:47) Hope for the future
(50:09) Campaign & where to find
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