WOMEN DON'T LEAVE MEN who CHEAT ON THEM (uncomfortable truth of arousal and desire)
Feb 8, 2024
auto_awesome
Exploring the paradox of infidelity in relationships, the podcast delves into how women's arousal can be heightened by the knowledge of other women's desire. It also discusses harmful advice on losing a partner to another man and the importance of balancing a stable relationship with non-exclusive sexual experiences.
Cheating can signal abundance and increase a woman's attraction.
Partner's loss of interest can result from being overly available and exclusive in commitment.
Deep dives
Women are Attracted to Men with Options
Women are attracted to men who have other options and display sexual market value. Being sexually loyal to a woman can be a turn-off, as it may signal a lack of desirability. Cheating on a woman can signal abundance, a lack of emotional care, and high sexual market value, increasing the woman's attraction.
Effect of Cheating on Women's Behavior
Cheating on a woman can lead to a shift in her behavior. If a woman is rude, disrespectful, or emotionally distant, engaging in relations with another woman can lead to a change in her attitude. Initially, she may react negatively, but then rationalize the situation and seek ways to improve the relationship, showing the impact of perceived options on her behavior.
How to Lose a Partner's Interest by Being Too Available
Being overly available and supportive, exclusively committed, and overly affectionate can lead to a loss of interest from a partner. By providing constant support, showing exclusive commitment in both emotional and sexual aspects, and ensuring financial provision, a partner might perceive a lack of options and lose interest. Demonstrating desirability and maintaining perceived options can prevent a partner from losing interest.