Guinevere Turner, an actor and writer, shares her captivating yet surreal upbringing in a cult led by Mel Lyman. She unveils the stark contrast between her life and typical narratives about hippie communes. The discussion dives into her experiences with identity and belonging, the artistic and philosophical aspects of cult life, and the complexities of childhood on a Kansas farm. Turner also reflects on the gendered divisions in education and the haunting atmosphere of control that defined her upbringing, making for an enthralling recounting of her life's odyssey.
Guinevere Turner's upbringing within the Mel Lyman family commune illustrates the complexities and challenges of communal living devoid of traditional familial structures.
The cult's rigid hierarchy and Mel Lyman's authoritarian control created an environment where obedience was essential, impacting the children's development and identities.
Deep dives
Bob Dylan's Electric Shift at Newport Folk Festival
On July 25, 1965, Bob Dylan's performance at the Newport Folk Festival marked a pivotal moment in music history. Dressed differently and using an electric guitar instead of his traditional acoustic, Dylan's set began with 'Maggie's Farm,' which was met with a harsh negative reaction from the audience, composed largely of folk music purists. Despite the crowd's displeasure, he continued with 'Like a Rolling Stone,' leading to further uproar and disappointment among the 17,000 attendees. This dramatic shift from folk to rock symbolized the changing landscape of music, where the influence of rock legends like the Beatles and the Rolling Stones was gaining traction among younger generations.
The Cult of Mel Lyman
Mel Lyman, a musician and banjo player, emerged as a controversial figure after witnessing the chaotic reaction to Dylan's electric performance. He claimed to have received divine inspiration and gradually built a cult-like following based on his own interpretations of spirituality and music. Lyman established the Fort Hill community in Boston, where he attracted followers who viewed him as a Christ-like figure. His dogma combined elements of Buddhism and vague Christianity, emphasizing that enlightenment could be achieved through suffering, while promoting the idea that the world would end in 1976.
Life in the Lyman Family Commune
Guinevere Turner, a guest on the podcast, shares her upbringing within the Lyman family commune, which was characterized by a unique blend of familial relationships and communal living. Children like Turner grew up in an environment devoid of conventional familial structures; instead, parenting roles were often shared among many adults, leading to a complex web of relationships and identities. The community had its own set of rules, emphasizing strict labor and organizational hierarchies while rejecting societal norms. Education was also unstructured, focusing on individual interests rather than standardized curricula, which sometimes resulted in a lack of fundamental skills for the children.
Isolation and Control within the Community
As the Lyman community expanded, Mel imposed a strict, isolating control over its members, reinforcing the ideology that external society was evil. His leadership demanded loyalty, which sometimes resulted in harsh punishments such as shunning or physical discipline for disobedience. The community's children were often subjected to a hierarchy that mirrored adult relationships, with the status of their parents directly affecting their treatment. Despite the camaraderie and artistic expression present in their environment, the constant fear of punishment shaped a climate of obedience and adherence to Mel's dogmatic beliefs.
As an actor and writer, Guinevere Turner understands more than most, that some stories just can't be contrived. Because sometimes life is far stranger than fiction.
As is the case with Guinevere's upbringing.
Not your typical getting out story, it would take years for Guinevere to understand that, no, she didn't grow up on a hippie commune in the 1970s and 80s... she grew up in a cult.
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Guinevere's Instagram: @guinevereturner / Twitter: @turnerguinevere
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