Shameless Sex

#462 Getting Real About Sex Toys with Kathy Kay

Dec 2, 2025
Kathy Kay, host of the Strictly Anonymous Confessions podcast and author, reveals the power of anonymous sex stories. She discusses how sharing intimate experiences can foster community and reduce shame. Kathy dives into her favorite sex toys and playful techniques, from clitoral to anal pleasure. The conversation highlights the unique dynamics that anonymity brings to storytelling and the diverse kinks featured in her book. Plus, Kathy participates in a fun game of rapid-fire toy recommendations that you won’t want to miss!
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ANECDOTE

Magic Wand Stories From Listeners

  • Callers shared Magic Wand orgasm stories including first-time squirting and explosive male orgasms.
  • The hosts played multiple anonymous listener recordings to illustrate varied wand uses.
ANECDOTE

Craigslist Launched The Podcast

  • Kathy Kay started by sourcing guests on Craigslist and taped many early episodes in one day.
  • That Craigslist outreach became the show's backbone before email submissions replaced it.
ADVICE

Use Stories To Reduce Shame

  • Share sex stories to realize you are not alone and reduce shame.
  • Kathy Kay reports listeners email that hearing others' stories normalized their desires and eased guilt.
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