The Power of Respect and How Stoics Become Influential
Feb 13, 2023
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Explore the power of respect and how Stoics gain influence. Highlights include self-respect as the foundation for moral behavior, the importance of genuine intentions for a happier life, the negative impacts of Snapchat and 'Be Real', and tips for gaining respect through communication, professionalism, and self-respect.
Internal self-respect is crucial to gaining external respect and influence.
Respect is best achieved through mutual value exchange and shared values, not manipulation or personal gain.
Deep dives
Prioritizing self-respect and internal respect
In this episode, the importance of prioritizing self-respect and internal respect over external respect is emphasized. Stoics believe that self-respect starts internally and that compromising your goals and inner voice for external respect is not worth it. By focusing on self-respect, you can stand out, influence the right group of people, and gain respect from others.
The value exchange in gaining respect
The podcast discusses how respect works best when it is perceived as a value exchange. Rather than seeking respect for personal gain or to manipulate others, Stoics believe in the importance of mutual respect based on shared values. Respect is not about getting others to follow you, but about working together and gaining value from one another.
The relationship between respect and influence
The podcast explores the relationship between respect and influence. It emphasizes that respect starts internally and is built on living with values and morals. Stoics believe that influence is not about seeking power or materialistic things, but about having the ability to positively impact others with your words and actions. By living true to your values, respect and influence will naturally follow.
Tips for gaining respect and influence
The podcast provides tips for gaining respect and influence. It suggests speaking only when necessary and focusing on words that have meaning and purpose. Confidence in your delivery and actions is key, as it builds confidence in others. Honesty is emphasized as an important aspect of gaining respect, along with treating others as equals and choosing your vocabulary wisely. Lastly, being knowledgeable and informed in conversations with people in positions of authority helps establish respect and influence.
Want to be respected? Do you seek influence as you strive to do good in your community? Tune in as we discuss the value of both respect and influence to a stoic, and give tips on how to gain both from important people. (Spoiler: It starts internally).
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