Ep 162: How I Realised I’m A Perfectionist

Despite it now being my day job to talk about perfectionism, it was only a few years ago that I actually realised I was a perfectionist! There are so many misconceptions around perfectionism that until my mid-twenties, I thought I wasn’t perfect enough to be a perfectionist. And because I didn’t realise I was a perfectionist, I felt like I was the only one struggling with procrastination, crippling self-doubt, overthinking and being all-or-nothing.

Realising that I’m a perfectionist gave me a whole new vocabulary that has allowed me to change my life for the better - because it’s only when you realise you’re a perfectionist that you become empowered to overcome perfectionism.

In this episode, I’m opening up about my journey with perfectionism and the important points along the way. I can’t remember everything but I hope that what I share in this episode helps you understand yourself a little bit more.

In This Episode You’ll Learn:

• Why I didn’t think I was a perfectionist until I was in my mid-twenties
• The most common misconceptions about perfectionism
• The childhood experience that I made mean I wasn’t good enough
• Why it’s not necessary to dissect your past in order to overcome perfectionism
• What caused my perfectionist tendencies to begin causing problems
• The most important teachers on my personal development journey

 

Featured In The Episode:

• Perfectionists Getting Shit Done - our membership community
• Mindset by Carol Dweck
• Carol Dweck interview with Tom Bilyeu
• Episode 22: How Personal Development Helped Me Overcome Self-Doubt
• Episode 45: 10 Signs You’re A Perfectionist
• Episode 57: 7 Differences Between Perfectionists + High Achievers
• Episode 59: Daring Greatly by Brené Brown
• Episode 118: Thoughts That Create A Growth Mindset
• Episode 135: 7 Signs You Have A Fixed Mindset
• Episode 158: 5 Life-Changing Lessons About Perfectionism From Brené Brown

 

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When you join our global community of recovering perfectionists, you’ll get instant access to our ever-growing library of personal development tools designed to help you beat procrastination, overcome perfectionism and become your best self - it includes masterclasses, coaching calls, journaling exercises, workbooks, meditations and more. 

And you’ll have the option to learn everything on the go with easy mobile access. Plus with judgement-free support from our beautiful community every step along the way, you’ll never have to feel alone again. It’s time to create the success you deserve. 

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