Orthodox Conundrum A Person is a Subject, not an Object: New Traditional Perspectives on Tzniut, with Bracha Poliakoff and Rabbi Anthony Manning (CLASSIC EPISODE)
Dec 29, 2025
In this insightful discussion, Bracha Poliakoff, a licensed clinical social worker and writer, and Rabbi Anthony Manning, a seasoned educator, explore the concept of tzniut, or modesty. They redefine tzniut beyond mere clothing, emphasizing dignity and self-respect for all genders. The guests tackle the negative connotations and trauma associated with tzniut education, the harmful weaponization of modesty, and the importance of community standards. They advocate for a balanced, respectful approach to halachic teaching and highlight the need for a more inclusive understanding of tzniut.
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Tzniut As Core Jewish Value
- Tzniut is primarily a Torah value about dignity, self-respect, and awareness of God rather than just clothing rules.
- Bracha Poliakoff argues reclaiming that broader value can reframe community teaching and reduce trauma around the topic.
Beyond Hemlines: A Broader Conversation
- Rabbi Anthony Manning stresses the book focuses far beyond women's clothing, placing only a few pages on specific dress details.
- He reframes tzniut as a broad, shared halakhic and ethical conversation for men and women.
Materialism Is A Tzniut Issue
- Materialism and conspicuous consumption contradict tzniut's dignity ethic but are rarely treated as tzniut issues.
- Bracha Poliakoff urges intentionally applying tzniut values to spending, weddings, and homes.