Matt Terwilliger learned through competitive sports that emotions, when unchecked, can be exploited by your opponent. He strived for stoicism all the way through his basketball career, landing him in the 2007 NCAA Basketball National Championship. We talk with Matt about the motivating power emotions can have when you welcome and understand them, and how he tries to explain emotional regulation to his 4-year-old. Matt also shares his own awakening to an unhealthy relationship with money, how he has shifted his perspective away from security scarcity to abundance budgeting, and as a financial advisor how he helps his fellow Driven clients do the same.