“It's impossible to love someone and control them at the same time" - Terry Crews. There is no better description of the lack of love that exists with narcissistic abusers then this quote. Narcissistic abuse is fake and manipulated relationship designed to keep victims serving as a source of supply. All actions taken and narcissistic abuse tactics by narcissistic abusers are done to maintain this control. Victims of narcissistic abuse will need to far the harsh shocking reality of their false relationship and heal from the very destructive nature of the narcissists control mechanisms.