Family Rules! The Podcast S1 E29: Ep. 29: "Raising an Introverted Child" with Jessie Funk
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Oct 8, 2021 Jessie Funk, a public speaker, author, and therapist, discusses the nuances of raising an introverted child. She highlights the crucial difference between introversion and extroversion, sharing insights on honoring boundaries and empathizing with her daughter's need for downtime. Jessie emphasizes the importance of teaching kids to advocate for themselves and the concept of an emotional bank account to foster trust. She also encourages giving autonomy to children and engaging in meaningful activities to build connection, reminding us that parenting is a continuous learning journey.
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Recharge, Not Social Skill
- Extroversion and introversion are about how people recharge, not about confidence or shyness.
- Jessie explains she gains energy from others while Janessa gets overstimulated and needs solitude to recharge.
Early Signs In Playdate Energy
- Jessie noticed early that her daughter couldn't handle back-to-back playdates and needed downtime.
- She recognized Janessa's energy shifted after too much social time, showing early introvert signs.
Say Sorry And Acknowledge Boundaries
- When your child says 'slow down,' apologize and honor their boundary immediately.
- Verbalize that you hear them so they don't feel railroaded or ignored.
