Ask Benny: Can I Learn a Language With My Partner?
Apr 24, 2023
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Benny explores the challenges of learning a language with your partner and suggests building relationships with native speakers or teachers. He also emphasizes other ways your partner can support your language learning.
Learning a new language with your partner can be challenging and may not yield ideal results, so it's recommended to focus on creating new relationships with native speakers or language teachers for better motivation and immersion.
To effectively learn a language, it is advised to create new connections where you can exclusively use the target language, such as hiring a private teacher or engaging in language exchange programs, to establish momentum and smoother language learning.
Deep dives
Learning a language with your partner may not be ideal
If you are in a relationship, trying to learn your partner's language may not be the best approach. Developing a new language connection with your partner can be challenging, frustrating, and may not yield ideal results. Since you already have an established relationship in your native language, it can be difficult to switch to a new language with your partner. It is recommended to focus on creating new relationships with native speakers or language teachers to improve language skills, as these relationships provide better motivation and immersion. Additionally, partners can still play a role in language learning by introducing you to their family or friends who speak the target language, creating opportunities for practice and immersion.
Creating new connections and using target language from day one
To effectively learn a language, it is advised to create new connections in your life where you can exclusively use the target language. This can be achieved through hiring a private teacher or engaging in language exchange programs. By developing a new relationship where you communicate solely in the target language, you can adopt a 'speak from day one' mentality, allowing for effective and meaningful communication. When you reach an intermediate level, you can then introduce the target language gradually with your partner. Switching back and forth between languages with a partner may hinder progress and create unnecessary frustrations. By focusing on new connections and using the target language consistently, you can establish momentum and smoother language learning.
Benny gives his opinion on learning a language with the help of your partner and why it can cause difficulties both to the language learning and the relationship itself.
Instead, he suggests alternatives that would still allow your partner to help you practise the language indirectly!