The Blindboy Podcast How to speak to men who have an unhelpful view of Masculinity
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May 13, 2025 The discussion kicks off with a look at personal growth through the lens of Mike 'the Situation' Sorrentino's transformation. Humor shines as the speaker shares their quirky vampire-like sun exposure struggles while reflecting on masculinity. A heartfelt segment celebrates nine years of creative community while critiquing outdated gender norms. The focus shifts to redefining masculinity by promoting emotional vulnerability and authentic relationships, emphasizing how rigid views can harm relationships. It's a mixture of humor, personal insight, and powerful calls for change!
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Mike's Radical Transformation
- Mike "the Situation" Sorrentino transformed from a toxic, misogynistic bully to a kind, humble adult over about eight years.
- This change involved overcoming addiction and addressing underlying pain, challenging initial negative judgments.
Living as a 'Vampire' on Antibiotics
- Blindboyboatclub had to live like a vampire on antibiotics that made his skin vulnerable to sunlight.
- He wore a floor-length black kimono and sunglasses in public, drawing stares and embarrassment.
Replace 'Man' With 'Adult'
- Gender expectations about how men should act are never helpful and usually cause harm.
- Replacing 'what would a man do?' with 'what would an adult do?' leads to healthier responses and self-compassion.