“My Story: My Journey in Dentistry and the Lessons Learned.” with Dr Alan Stern

In this episode of the Ultimate Dental Podcast, Dr. David Moffet interviews Dr. Alan Stern, who shares his journey from a challenging start in dentistry to becoming a respected figure in the field. Alan discusses the importance of mentorship, overcoming financial struggles, and finding happiness in dentistry. He also talks about his book, 'Enjoy The Ride' which encapsulates his experiences and lessons learned throughout his career. In this engaging conversation, Alan Stern and Dr. David Moffet explore the multifaceted world of dentistry, emphasising the importance of self-kindness, continuous learning, and the role of coaching in achieving professional success. They discuss the identity beyond being a dentist, the challenges of practice ownership, and the realities of life after dentistry. The conversation also touches on the concept of security in life and the importance of adapting to change, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their unique journeys in the dental profession. What you will learn: [01:20] Introduction and Guest Background [03:37] Alan's Journey into Dentistry [10:22] Overcoming Challenges and Finding Purpose [21:55] The Importance of Coaching and Mentorship [23:32] Writing the Book: ‘Enjoy the Ride’ [26:50] Lessons Learned and Impactful Stories [31:50] Embracing Imperfection in Dentistry [34:10] The Identity Beyond Dentistry [35:10] The Importance of Coaching [37:04] Continuous Learning and Adaptation [38:51] Life After Dentistry: A New Chapter [40:33] Finding Safety in Florida [44:25] The Illusion of Security [45:33] Creating a Rewarding Dental Career Takeaways  Alan was the first in his family to earn a college degree.  He faced rejection from 23 medical schools before pursuing dentistry.  Financial struggles through his career led him to a quarter of a million dollars in debt.  Every dentist is doing sacred work that impacts lives.  Finding the right mentor can change your career trajectory.  Happiness in dentistry is achievable with the right mindset.  Writing a book can be a rewarding process.  Personal stories can have a profound impact on others.  Forgiveness and grace are important in one's career journey.  Opportunities often arise from setbacks and challenges.  Be as kind to yourself as you are to your patients.  Dentistry is a profession, not an identity.  Continuous improvement is key to success.  Coaching can help you break through glass ceilings.  Learning is a privilege and a professional obligation.  Security is an illusion; risks exist everywhere.  Practice ownership can lead to a comfortable life.  Don't hesitate to make necessary changes in your career.  Recognise when it's time to let go of toxic staff.  Sharing knowledge and experience is a way to give back. Sound Bites  "I call her my guardian angel."  "You have to forgive yourself also."  "Forgive yourself for being human."  "You just have to be 1% better."  "Learning is our privilege."  "Being a practice owner is a gift."