

Nicole Byer
Sep 30, 2025
Nicole Byer, a vibrant comedian and author known for her body-positive humor, shares her journey through grief and growth. She dives into the profound impact of losing her parents and how it shaped her outlook on love and life. Byer discusses body acceptance and her refreshing take on ADHD, all while promoting her latest book. With a dash of gallows humor, she emphasizes the importance of therapy and candid storytelling as a means to connect with her audience. Tune in for laughs and enlightening insights on personal liberation!
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Why She Started Her Podcast
- Nicole Byer started her podcast 'Why Won't You Date Me' to talk about dating, relationships, and sex and build her audience for comedy tours.
- She found podcasting rewarding because it let her change opinions weekly and helped sell show tickets.
Body Neutrality Over Positivity
- Nicole frames her book around body neutrality, not forced positivity, acknowledging mixed feelings about her body are valid.
- She uses humor and bold photos to push back against societal shaming of fat bodies.
Teen Retail Lessons Shaped Her
- Nicole worked retail at Lane Bryant as a teen and hated repetitive tasks like folding and denim walls.
- The job shaped her shopping sensibility and attention to how clothes are displayed and cared for.