PSR Podcast

The Deep-Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight

Apr 9, 2025

Dr. Steve Call, a clinical psychologist and co-author of 'The Deep Rooted Marriage,' dives into how past traumas shape current marital conflicts. He shares his personal journey and highlights the importance of awareness and curiosity in relationships. The discussion includes practical strategies for fostering emotional intimacy, the healing power of play, and effective methods for managing relationship triggers. With insights on nurturing connections and enhancing communication, Dr. Call offers hope and tools for couples seeking deeper understanding and healing.

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Recognizing how past traumas influence present marital conflicts is essential for fostering healing and deeper emotional understanding between partners.

Incorporating play into relationships not only fosters intimacy and joy but also helps couples navigate difficult emotions and reconnect.

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Impact of Past Traumas on Relationships

Past traumas significantly influence present marital conflicts, often manifesting in unexpected ways. Individuals may find that unresolved issues from their childhood or previous relationships resurface during moments of intimacy or conflict, leading to emotional reactions that seem disproportionate to the current situation. Awareness of these connections is crucial for couples, as recognizing how past experiences shape present dynamics can help facilitate healing and deeper understanding. By addressing and discussing these traumas, couples can create a foundation for growth, allowing for healthier communication and connection.

Intro

2min

Navigating Marital Journeys

5min

Navigating Marriage: Past and Present

5min

The Power of Curiosity in Strengthening Marital Connection

2min

Healing Through Awareness and Play

17min

Nurturing Marriage: Understanding Needs for Growth

3min

In this episode, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Steve Call, a clinical psychologist and co-author with Dr. Dan Allender of The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight*. We dive into the book's themes, focusing on how past traumas influence present marital conflicts and how to grow in emotional understanding and intimacy. Dr. Call shares his personal marriage journey, emphasizing the importance of awareness and curiosity in relationships.

We discuss practical steps for couples to cultivate awareness, the role of play in healing, and strategies for managing triggers. Dr. Call offers hope and resources for couples to nourish their relationships.

To learn more about Dr. Call’s resources and to get the book, visit TheReconnectInstitute.com.

Topics Covered in this Episode:

Discussion of the book "The Deep Rooted Marriage: Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight.*"
Exploration of how past experiences and traumas influence current marital conflicts.
Importance of cultivating awareness and curiosity in relationships.
The role of intensive counseling formats in addressing deep-rooted issues.
Strategies for couples to develop awareness during conflicts.
The significance of play in fostering connection and healing in marriage.
Addressing triggers and shame in relationships, particularly during recovery.
Practical strategies for emotional regulation and self-care during challenging moments.
The metaphor of soil amendments to illustrate the need for nurturing relationships.
Resources and support for couples seeking to deepen their connection and navigate challenges.

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