

The Art of Disagreeing with Gavin Ortlund
Feb 18, 2025
Gavin Ortlund, a pastor and apologist, discusses the delicate art of disagreeing while preserving relationships. He shares his views on balancing boldness with love in tough conversations, especially within the Christian community. The conversation touches on humorous literary debates, personal confessions about indulging in chocolate, and the challenges posed by social media. Ultimately, Gavin emphasizes the importance of graciousness and character in leadership, advocating for respectful dialogue that honors both truth and compassion.
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No Contradiction in Biblical Discourse
- Harsh biblical language targets extreme evil, not general discourse.
- Vigorous denouncement can coexist with gracious speech depending on context and motive.
Disagree with Charity and Patience
- Slow down and pray for a heart of love when disagreeing.
- Use listening and gentle speech to honor Christ even amid unresolved conflict.
Listen to Underlying Concerns
- Understand the values and experiences behind someone's beliefs to cultivate compassion in disagreements.
- Honor their fears and pain even if you still disagree with their conclusions.