Timothy Carney on How It Became So Hard to Raise a Family in America
Mar 15, 2024
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The podcast explores the decline in family formation in America and its consequences. It discusses the cultural, economic, and policy factors influencing birth rates. The correlation between religiosity and family size is analyzed, along with a focus on the Orthodox Jewish community. The impact of technology on family life, Israel's high birth rate, and the importance of supportive subcultures for child-rearing are also discussed.
Cultural attitudes and norms greatly influence family formation more than legal and economic factors.
Intentional communities promoting family-friendly values play a crucial role in encouraging higher birth rates.
Deep dives
Declining Birthrates in the Modern West
In the modern and postmodern West, family formation, including marriage and having children, has seen a decline. Demographers stress that for a population to replace itself, each woman needs to have at least 2.1 children, a number the US falls below. Economic, social, political, spiritual, and moral consequences arise from these declining birth rates, prompting policymakers to consider laws and incentives to encourage family formation.
The Role of Culture in Family Formation
Policy and economic incentives are contemplated to ease the challenges related to marriage and children. However, cultural attitudes and norms surrounding family life are suggested to play a significant role. The podcast explores how strengthening the American family may require a deeper review of societal values and behaviors, potentially more influential than mere policy and law changes.
Impacts of Technology on Family Culture
Technology, such as smartphones and social media, can disrupt family culture by consuming time and alienating individuals within a family unit. The podcast emphasizes that intentional communities, like the Orthodox Jewish suburb of Kent Mill, create environments that promote family-friendly values and practices. Restricting technology use, promoting outdoor play, and fostering values of sacrifice and community support can enhance family cultures.
Lessons from Israel and Religious Communities
Through interactions in Israel and observations of religious communities like Kent Mill, insights into higher birth rates are gained. Factors such as religious beliefs, tribal motivations, and national imperatives contribute to a culture that values family and child-rearing. Creating environments that support children's freedom, emphasize community values, and limit technology can positively impact family cultures, providing practical implications for fostering family-friendly communities.
In 21st-century America, the formation of families has become less common, and when people do get married and have children, they have fewer of them. According to demographers, for a population to reproduce itself, each family in it must on average produce at least 2.1 children. Americans are now reproducing at well below that number, a trend that comes with economic, social, political, spiritual, and moral consequences.
It's possible that government initiatives and financial incentives can encourage this number to rise. But in general there are mixed results when governments try to incentivize childbirth. This may be a sign that the forces undermining family formation are not primarily legal or economic, and that they are instead cultural attitudes and norms of behavior.
That possibility is what today's podcast guest, Timothy Carney, addresses in a new book, Family Unfriendly: How Our Culture Made Raising Kids Much Harder Than It Needs to Be. In looking for examples of communities that have developed healthy family cultures, his reporting took him to an Orthodox suburb of Washington, DC, where he spent Purim and Shabbat, and to Israel.
Musical selections in this podcast are drawn from the Quintet for Clarinet and Strings, op. 31a, composed by Paul Ben-Haim and performed by the ARC Ensemble.
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