Rethinking Humanity 29: Narcissim and the Need to Relate
May 29, 2021
Explore the roots of narcissism and the human need for connection. Delve into Erich Fromm's insights on the importance of relatedness for sanity and fulfillment. Discover how love, rather than control or submission, fosters true unity while maintaining individuality. The hosts discuss the perils of narcissism, including distorted realities and a lack of self-love. With insights on how cultural isolation affects wellbeing, this conversation reminds us that genuine connection is essential for a healthy society.
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Relatedness As A Fundamental Human Need
- Fromm argues humans feel existential aloneness after separation from nature and need union to retain sanity.
- This need drives behaviors like submission, domination, or genuine love as routes to unity.
Touch Is Essential From Infancy On
- Sonia and Lacey reference orphan studies showing infants deprived of touch can die, highlighting touch as essential.
- They stress adults also need physical contact and social interaction to thrive.
Submission And Domination Are False Unions
- Submission and domination both create symbiotic ties that destroy individual integrity and freedom.
- These ties satisfy closeness yet breed resentment and never yield real fulfillment.
