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Stoic Coffee Break

149 - The Vocabulary of Anger

Oct 8, 2018
The podcast discusses the language of anger and the mismanagement of negative emotions. It highlights the impact of trauma on our reactions and the feeling of helplessness. The importance of expanding our emotional vocabulary and accurately identifying and addressing different emotions is emphasized.
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Quick takeaways

  • Unresolved traumas can lead to mismanaged anger, causing disproportionate reactions to situations.
  • Expanding emotional vocabulary helps differentiate between various negative emotions and respond appropriately to each.

Deep dives

Managing Anger and Redefining its Language

The podcast episode explores the language and management of anger. The speaker emphasizes the pattern of strong negative emotions being mismanaged, often due to unresolved traumas. When anger arises, the speaker suggests questioning its intention and considering if it is genuinely related to the situation. Appropriate anger should not be ignored and may indicate injustice or mistreatment. However, it is crucial to distinguish between appropriate and inappropriate anger. The speaker recommends taking a pause before reacting, assessing one's genuine intentions, and finding new tools to communicate emotions effectively.

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