The Political Scene | The New Yorker

Family Estrangement Is on the Rise. Are Politics to Blame?

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Nov 19, 2025
Anna Russell, a contributing writer for The New Yorker, dives into the rising trend of family estrangement, revealing that over a quarter of Americans are now estranged from relatives. She explores how social media shapes attitudes towards ‘no contact’ and shares personal motivations behind her research. Political divides and pandemic-related conflicts are examined as triggers for severed ties. Additionally, Russell discusses the emotional toll on families and offers strategies to navigate challenging conversations, especially during the holidays.
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INSIGHT

Estrangement Is Widespread And Rising

  • About 27 percent of Americans are estranged from at least one relative according to some estimates.
  • Psychologists and early research suggest estrangement is growing and sometimes politically driven.
INSIGHT

A Community Normalizes No Contact

  • Estrangement exists on a spectrum from no contact to low contact with many using online lingo like "no contact" and "low contact."
  • Communities on TikTok and Reddit normalize and support people who distance themselves from relatives.
ANECDOTE

Amy's Wedding Sparked The Break

  • Anna profiled a woman named Amy whose estrangement stemmed from political and worldview differences rather than clear abuse.
  • Amy refused parental contact after disputes over vaccination and wedding attendance created a major rupture.
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