

Do Weekly Dates Still Apply?
Apr 23, 2025
The discussion centers on the relevance of weekly dates in modern relationships. Participants emphasize the importance of pacing, advocating for quality over quantity in outings. Rushing can backfire, often reducing attraction, especially from men. A slower approach is suggested to create interest and comfort, particularly for women. By allowing space between dates while maintaining communication, couples can cultivate emotional balance and deepen their connections.
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Stick to Weekly Dates Initially
- Make weekly dates during the initial weeks of dating to keep measured progress and avoid rushing.
- Allow the woman space to reach out first after a few weeks as a sign of growing interest.
Let Her Initiate After Early Dates
- Wait for her to start initiating contact after a few dates before increasing frequency of communication.
- When she starts calling and texting daily, you can easily make spontaneous dates and spend more time together.
Manage Pursuit Balance and Apologize
- If communication drops, re-engage with a call or text following the once-a-week rule to reset momentum.
- Apologize sincerely if she expresses hurt feelings; avoid arguing or using logic to dismiss her emotions.