

Ep 146 - Unlocking Authentic Masculinity: Spiritual Warfare, Submission, and the Lessons of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
How do we unlock the true potential of authentic masculinity? In part 2 of our conversation with Roy Shaw, we explore the deep spiritual and practical connections between submission, spiritual combat, and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Drawing from Scripture, the wisdom of the Church, and personal journeys, James and Father Dom tackle the challenges men face today.
Discover why Ephesians 5 calls men to lead and love like Christ and how lessons from BJJ mirror the virtues required to win the spiritual battle for our families and communities. Hear powerful insights on the importance of complementarity in marriage, breaking generational sin, and the transformative power of submission—not as weakness but as strength.
Takeaways:
- Submission as Leadership: True submission, as seen in Ephesians 5, involves men dying to themselves to serve their families and communities with love and leadership. This reflects Christ’s love for the Church.
- The Power of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu: BJJ teaches discipline, humility, and perseverance—critical virtues for spiritual warfare. "Learning to tap" mirrors the need for surrender to God's will.
- Breaking Generational Sin: Addressing intergenerational sin and spiritual strongholds is vital for protecting our families from hidden spiritual battles.
- Authentic Masculinity: Embracing strength tempered by meekness leads to righteous leadership and inspires those around us to follow Christ.
Food for Thought:
- "A man on fire for God will stand at the gate, ensuring Satan has no entry into his home."
- "Submission isn’t about losing power; it’s about unleashing the strength God has given you to serve."
- "Marriage isn’t 50/50—it’s 100/100. True love is about out-giving each other."
- "BJJ isn’t just a martial art—it’s a theological exercise in humility and perseverance."
- "You will know the character of a man by the countenance of his wife."
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