The Suzanne Venker Show Ep. 182: Do NOT get married without first going through "The List"!
Sep 28, 2023
In this thought-provoking discussion, couples are urged to tackle nine crucial topics before engagement. Topics include differing views on marriage, beliefs about God and religion, and geographical considerations. The conversation delves into work-life balance, financial compatibility, and the readiness to handle conflict. Discussion also covers setting healthy boundaries, examining relationship history, and planning vacations together. These insights aim to foster clarity and intention for lasting relationships.
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Early Financial and Family Disclosure
- Disclose your financial situation and child expectations by the third date to avoid wasting time.
- Early clarity helps determine compatibility swiftly, saving emotional investment on the wrong match.
Marriage Views Shape Outcomes
- Marriage success hinges on matching views of marriage as an institution, not just love.
- Being 'all in' or having a divorce mentality often stems from family background and shapes long-term commitment.
Align on Faith and Religion
- Align on belief in God or religion, as differing beliefs affect parenting and long-term harmony.
- One partner should lead on religion if views differ, to maintain unity.