S01E05 - No Such Thing as a Mistake [Part 5 of 13]

One of my favorite lines in the Master Coach Manifesto is: "A Master Coach coaches beyond right or wrong or bad or good because there is no such thing as a mistake.”

Here’s what I know: There’s no benefit to blaming and shaming for mistakes. The same is true for withholding innocence. Seeing your own innocence, and your clients is a cure-all for reframing your past into a new present that you’ll be proud of. And even more important, you will be able to let go of guilt and breath!

Moments You Don’t Want to Miss!

4:51  Go beyond the current problem

7:06  This belief limits your capacity to help your clients

7:38  Three things needed for transformation

8:48  Downfall of “I should have known better.”

10:03 Coaching skill of seeing innocence

10:45 More you know, the crueler you can become

11:59 Wrong way to motivate yourself and robot results

13:30 What if you saw your client’s innocence?

14:17 Coaching roleplay: Mistakes

17:40 Ask coaching questions to eliminate guilt, shame, etc.

18:08 Forget 10. Six is fine.

18:20 Where striving for 10 comes from

20:15 Meaning of mistake

20:46 Coaching Tip of the Day: Do you see your own innocence and do you see your client’s?

22:18 Question of the Day: “My client came to me saying that she wants to have a baby with her husband because she’s getting older and believes that kids bring couples joy and therefore, brings them closer together.”

23:35 Clarity comes when any answer to the same question is okay

24:30 “Your yes means nothing if you can’t say no.”

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