DATING BOUNDARIES, RED FLAGS & ACCOUNTABILITY | GUYS AND GIRLS Q&A

Dec 29, 2025

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We're switching things up this week with a special episode format you asked for! Join Michelle, Izzy, Jesse, and Sam as they tackle your burning questions in a guys vs. girls perspective showdown. From relationships and boundaries to faith struggles and Christian culture, we're diving into the real conversations you wanted to hear—unfiltered, honest, and packed with different viewpoints.

Discover the team's honest takes on intimacy and boundaries in Christian dating—from "how far is too far?" to why the question itself might be the wrong approach. Hear why Jesse believes it's not about what you can get away with but how you can honor God, and Michelle's conviction that taking the physical stuff out brings clarity to relationships. Plus, Sam opens up about his strict accountability practice with a friend who texts him four questions every single day, and why getting comfortable with weakness and vulnerability is one of the biggest challenges Christian men face.

From biggest red flags in Christian dating (Christianese, anyone?) to whether Christians should post swimwear photos online, no topic is off limits. Explore how each person connects with God differently—whether through worship music, scripture, or nature—and why watching wind blow through trees hits different. Learn about the unique challenges women face in Christian spaces, including the lack of investment in female leaders and why it's time for women to step boldly into their God-given authority without shying away.

This episode tackles co-dependency red flags, the power of being happily independent before dating, why guys wish girls knew they can handle deep conversations too, and the importance of vulnerability over just transparency in brotherhood. Whether you're navigating dating, struggling with accountability, or wondering how to honor God in relationships—this raw, real conversation will challenge you to think differently.

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