Every Day Matters w/ Pastor Jeff Simmons 20 Seconds of Courage // Jacob Helton (Ep. 25)
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Dec 3, 2025 
In this engaging conversation, Jacob Helton, a pastor's kid and father of four, shares his journey of struggle and recovery. He discusses the pressures of life, hidden sins, and the pivotal moment of discovering 20 seconds of courage to confess his struggles. Jacob emphasizes the importance of community, honesty, and faith in navigating difficult seasons. Through personal anecdotes, he illustrates how connecting with others and seeking help can lead to healing and growth, encouraging listeners to take their own courageous steps.
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Season Of Solitude And Discernment
- Jacob describes growing up in church, a gap-year-like season, and time alone on a North Dakota farm where he wrestled with purpose and God's provision.
- That solitude shaped his listening to God and set the stage for his later choices in work, marriage, and ministry.
Daily Steps Over Long-Term Fixes
- Jacob highlights the daily nature of discipleship and recovery: choose present, daily steps rather than chasing monthly or annual fixes.
- He connects 'daily bread' and one-day-at-a-time recovery language to staying present with God.
Confession After 20 Seconds Of Courage
- Jacob shares the crisis season of hiding pornography and alcohol use while gaslighting his wife, then confessing after '20 seconds of bravery.'
- That truthful confession began recovery, community connection, and slow restoration in his marriage and faith.
