

#88 What It Really Means To Be Human With Carlos Whittaker
What if being human meant showing up in the mess, not hiding from it? In this powerful and honest episode, we're joined by best-selling author, speaker, and hope dealer Carlos Whitaker—a man on a mission to bring people together through empathy, vulnerability, and healing conversations.
Carlos opens up about what it really means to be human in a divided world, and how we can bridge gaps between people who think, look, or live differently than we do. He shares how his journey through anxiety, identity, and reconciliation has shaped his life’s purpose—and why being fully human requires courage, curiosity, and compassion.
We dive deep into the stories behind his viral moments, his intentional parenting philosophy, and the practice of showing up with love even when it's hard. Whether you're leading a family, a business, or just trying to lead yourself well, Carlos offers profound wisdom on how to live with more humanity and less hustle.
This episode will inspire you to live a more open-hearted, others-focused life—and to be the kind of person who helps heal rather than divide.
Don’t miss this one. Carlos Whitaker brings the kind of hope we all need right now.
Key Takeaways:
- Carlos emphasizes the importance of slowing down to reconnect with our humanity.
- The impact of technology on our lives and relationships is profound.
- Healing often requires addressing wounds from our past.
- Building relationships requires empathy and understanding of differing viewpoints.
- Writing daily helps maintain creativity and clarity of thought.
- Curiosity can lead to deeper understanding and change in relationships.
Chapters
00:00 The Journey of Carlos: From Worship Leader to Author
07:47 Discovering True Calling: Teaching and Communicating
14:05 The Essence of Being Human: Slowing Down
19:14 The Impact of Technology on Humanity
25:23 Family First: Healing Through Connection
31:19 Practical Strategies for Reducing Screen Time
38:58 The Importance of Face-to-Face Interaction
40:02 Insights from the Amish: Curiosity and Knowledge
41:58 The Power of Reading and Slowing Down
44:00 Healing: Addressing Inner Wounds
48:12 The Role of Therapy in Personal Growth
52:24 Balancing Work and Family Life
01:00:08 Launching Human School: Rediscovering Humanity
01:02:13 Walking with People: A New Perspective on Division
01:09:50 FFM Long outro .mp4
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https://www.carloswhittaker.com/podcast
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