Family Secrets I Thought I Was Telling the Truth
Jan 2, 2025
In this engaging conversation, Jill Cement, a novelist and professor at the University of Florida, reflects on her life-changing relationship with a much-older professor that began at sixteen. She discusses the evolution of her memories over time—how they've shaped her identity and understanding of truth. Jill dives into the intricacies of mentorship, the impact of her Jewish upbringing, and the delicate balance of love and artistic identity. She also candidly addresses the hidden truths within family dynamics and the profound influences of aging on creativity.
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Rushed Adulthood and Early Determination
- Jill Cement was rushed into adulthood at 14, working full time to help support her single-parent family.
- She knew since age three she wanted to be an artist but was a terrible student and only attended high school three days a week.
Meeting Arnold at 16
- At 16, Jill found an artist Arnold Meschies through his wife's gallery and began private life drawing classes with him.
- She was enamored with his art and thrilled to be in such an adult and artistic environment.
The First Kiss and Affair Start
- Jill approached Arnold and kissed him at age 16, beginning a complicated relationship.
- After a few months in New York, she returned to Los Angeles and initiated their affair.
