Life Check Yourself Episode 470: “Awkward! Who Do You Invite When You Can’t Stand His Family?” with Heather Wiese

Oct 9, 2024

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In this week’s episode, Marni welcomes Heather Wiese to the Life Check Yourself studio. Heather is the founder of Bell'INVITO, a responsible luxury brand specializing in stationery and leather goods. Heather shares her journey from art direction to establishing a company that marries beauty with etiquette, and her passion for teaching the importance of thoughtful communication in our everyday interactions. Their conversation dives deep into the relevance of etiquette in today’s fast-paced world, showing that it’s not just about table manners or formal occasions—it’s about everyday respect, emotional intelligence, and intentional living. Heather breaks down how etiquette impacts our relationships, our businesses, and even our self-confidence. Her insights reveal how the smallest gestures, when done thoughtfully, can transform how we communicate and connect.

Key Takeaways:

Etiquette is Everywhere
Intentional Living is Key
Empowerment through Knowledge

Modern Etiquette (10:23)

Etiquette is not about being old-fashioned; it governs daily interactions. This explains how etiquette is ingrained in our social norms, even in casual settings like how we treat guests or navigate social media interactions. This knowledge helps build strong, respectful relationships.

“You do worry about etiquette. You have your own etiquette. You have protocols and the subculture of your house. And when someone doesn’t follow them, it’s weird."

Intentional Living (21:10)

Intentional living goes beyond what we buy. It’s about aligning our choices—whether material or behavioral—with values that support a meaningful life. Making informed decisions and understanding the long-term impact can bring clarity and peace.

"We inspire people to live beautifully and purchase intentionally while educating them on etiquette."

Empowering Yourself through Etiquette (34:45)

Knowing etiquette boosts self-confidence in social and professional scenarios. This emphasizes that etiquette is a tool for empowerment, enabling you to navigate any situation with grace and certainty. Mastering social protocols allows individuals to feel prepared, reducing anxiety in formal and informal settings alike. It builds confidence in every interaction.

"How many times do you go into a situation and feel so empowered when you actually are like, ‘I was right. I knew that.”

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