Slate Daily Feed Care & Feeding | From How To! | How To Raise a Kid in a Polarized Family
Sep 1, 2025
In this discussion, Melinda Wenner-Moyer, a science journalist and author, shares insights on raising children in politically polarized families. She explores how to maintain bonds with in-laws while instilling values of open-mindedness and justice in kids. Melinda provides practical strategies for navigating tough discussions, emphasizing the importance of compassion and communication. Personal anecdotes highlight the emotional challenges parents face, alongside effective methods to foster understanding and resilience in children amidst ideological differences.
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Grandma’s Comment About Underwear
- Sarah describes her three-year-old pulling down her dress because grandma told her boys must not see underwear.
- Sarah responded emotionally and told her daughter that Grandma was wrong and the child's body is not shameful.
Discomfort Can Become A Teaching Moment
- Moments of discomfort with extended family are rich opportunities to teach nuance and curiosity.
- Melinda says these moments can help children learn why people hold different beliefs and to listen deeply.
Set Clear, Specific Boundaries
- Set bright, specific boundaries for topics you won't tolerate in your child's presence (e.g., jokes about race, weight).
- Expect confusion from elders but enforce those clear rules consistently.
