Married Game Podcast

The Lie Men Tell Themselves Right Before She Leaves

Dec 19, 2025
Jessie Joy, a courageous advocate for personal growth, shares her transformative journey of leaving a relationship that fell short of her standards. She discusses the overwhelming emotions of making that decision while highlighting the power of setting boundaries. Together with Keith, they explore how dropping standards can lead to the demise of attraction and why true leadership in relationships demands ownership and high standards. Jessie's personal story inspires those feeling stuck to reclaim their lives, fostering thriving connections and authentic self-respect.
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INSIGHT

Leaving As Transformational Leverage

  • Leaving can be leverage that preserves your standards and forces change in a relationship.
  • Jessie used walking away as leverage to stop settling and reclaim her life and standards.
ANECDOTE

She Left Because Standards Dropped

  • Jessie left not because of abuse or cheating but because Keith dropped below her standard.
  • She preferred uncertainty over living dimmed and settling for less than her life should be.
ANECDOTE

Client Story: Leaving Triggered Radical Change

  • A client used leaving-as-leverage after 20 years and temporarily reignited his wife's sexuality.
  • That change led to messy fallout, rehab, then eventual transformation and a strong new relationship for him.
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