Morrow Marriage | Disrupting Divorce

When Sex Feels Like a Chore | What a Sexless Marriage Really Means | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep362

Jan 12, 2026
Discover why intimacy often feels like a chore rather than a joyful connection. Explore the concept of 'job sex' and how life changes like careers and kids can fracture emotional bonds. Learn how sex is sometimes used to avoid conflict or manage emotions, which can erode desire. The Morrow couple emphasizes the importance of intentional connection beyond the bedroom, and they share how deeper emotional ties and presence can revitalize a relationship. This candid discussion challenges conventional views on intimacy.
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INSIGHT

Early Passion Can Hide Deeper Needs

  • Sexual frequency early on can mask underlying emotional needs that sex later tries to satisfy.
  • Cass Morrow says high early desire often becomes a checklist once deeper needs are unmet.
ANECDOTE

Remembering Early Frequent Sex

  • Cass Morrow recalls sex multiple times a day early in their relationship and how it felt effortless.
  • He later recognizes he wasn't actually fueled by sex but by needing connection and security from Kathryn.
INSIGHT

Life Transitions Erode Connection

  • Careers, kids and moving in create distractions that erode connection if not addressed.
  • Cass Morrow links responsibility shifts to intentionality loss and declining intimacy.
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