Losing a Father at 17: Grief, Acceptance, and Finding Positives (#10)

What happens when you’re forced to face death before adulthood? At just 17, Spencer Sundlie lost his father—and instead of resisting grief, he embraced it. His journey offers a unique perspective on finding acceptance and maturity at such a young age.

In this episode, Spencer shares:

• How losing a parent as a teenager shaped his outlook on life and death
• The role his brother played in navigating grief together
• Why focusing on positives can transform pain into perspective
• Advice for young people facing loss far too early

Spencer’s wisdom, calmness, and honesty provide comfort and guidance to anyone navigating the death of a loved one, no matter their age.

Spencer Sundlie is a Real Estate Agent in San Diego and can be found at @spencersundlie

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  DEAD Talks with David Ferrugio approaches death differently. Each guest shares raw stories of grief, loss, or unique perspectives that challenge the “don’t talk about death” taboo. Grief doesn’t end—it evolves. After losing his father on September 11th at just 12 years old, David discovered the power of conversation. Through laughter, tears, and honest dialogue, DEAD Talks helps make it a little easier to talk about death, mourning, trauma, and the life that continues beyond it.

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