1081: Stuck Co-Parenting Lad with an Imprisoned Dad | Feedback Friday

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Nov 22, 2024

Co-parenting with an incarcerated ex poses unique challenges, especially when trying to keep a child's emotional safety in mind. The hosts discuss the complexities of navigating such a situation while managing the ex's narcissism. They also tackle the alarming rise of sextortion scams affecting youth, emphasizing the need for awareness and communication among parents. Additionally, the conversation touches on advocating for fair pay in the face of job insecurity and the difficulties of relationships influenced by external family dynamics.

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ANECDOTE

Co-Parenting with an Incarcerated Narcissist

A woman's ex-partner is in prison for multiple crimes, including drugs, guns, and stolen property.
He wants phone calls with their son, but she's worried about his narcissism and potential for retaliation.

ADVICE

Prioritizing Safety Over Villain

Prioritize safety when co-parenting with a dangerous ex.
Don't prioritize the villain's needs over your family's safety.

INSIGHT

Imperfect Parents

Having contact with a flawed parent can harm a child more than good.
A child's need for a parent, even an imperfect one, is also real.

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Co-parenting with a narcissistic ex in prison wasn't part of the plan. Now he wants phone calls with your son. What could go wrong? This is Feedback Friday!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:

You're co-parenting with your ex who is currently in prison for multiple crimes including drugs, guns, and stolen property. Your young son misses his dad and wants phone calls, but you're concerned about your ex's narcissistic tendencies and potential for retaliation. How do you protect both your son's heart and your safety?
You've been a loyal employee for 11 years, but after your company was acquired, you discovered new hires are making significantly more than you. With a recent acquisition of an Indian company making everyone nervous about job security, how do you advocate for fair pay without rocking the boat?
Your nephew's friend fell victim to a devastating online scam involving compromising photos, leading to tragic consequences. As these scams targeting young people become more prevalent, what can parents and communities do to prevent similar tragedies?
Your fiancée bought a house without your input, following her parents' wishes rather than your shared plans. Now she wants to live alone first and might not give you space for your belongings. Is this just about the house, or is there something deeper going on?
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You're torn between joining the Marine Corps and pursuing graduate studies in Milan, Italy. Having experienced both the military culture and European life, you're struggling to choose between duty and adventure. Which path leads to your authentic self?
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