Notes On Work - by Caleb Porzio Were you prepared to be God?
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Jan 17, 2026 The discussion kicks off with a humorous take on parenting and the nuances of potty training, highlighting the difference between peeing and the daunting task of pooping. Caleb shares anecdotes about successes and setbacks in his child's potty journey, including the power of incentives like suckers. Reflecting on proactive parenting strategies, he likens it to shaping behavior like a trainer. The podcast touches on food battles and the daily grind of routines, before revealing exciting news about a growing family dynamic.
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First Potty Success Became A Story
- Caleb Porzio recounts River's first successful potty poop which happened the day he went on stage at Wire Live.
- That one success didn't stick until they used incentives and the doctor promised a sucker as a reward.
Incentivize, Then Fade Rewards
- Use incentives to teach a behavior, then taper them to make the habit stick.
- Raise the bar gradually (little potty → big potty) and remove treats once the habit is established.
Parenting As Behavioral Design
- Parenting requires constant shaping: you're the puppeteer influencing many small behaviors.
- Caleb realizes parenting is like playing God because you must proactively design incentives and limits.
