Understanding the Importance of Communication in Relationships

Victor from Seattle raises a concern about feeling neglected in his relationship, despite his efforts to show interest in his girlfriend's life. He notes a lack of reciprocity in her attention towards his experiences, especially relating to his demanding job as a firefighter and EMT. Victor contemplates whether it's unreasonable to address this issue with his girlfriend, as he fears appearing needy or insecure. While acknowledging her caring gestures at times, such as providing him with thoughtful gifts and massages, he remains affected by her apparent disinterest. Seeking advice on how to broach the subject with her, Victor considers different approaches to communicate his need for more engagement and attention in the relationship.