Ep. 11 - Is Leaving America for Europe Really Worth it? (Life & Dating in Croatia)
Nov 8, 2023
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Sage, an American who left the US to live in Croatia, discusses the driving factors behind leaving America. They explore the differences between life in Europe and the US, including the Balkan mentality around dating and making friends. Topics covered include backpacking through Europe, cultural differences and perspectives, communication styles, living in Croatia, housing challenges, friendships and mentality in Croatia and the US, and the transition into adulthood and cost of living.
Living in Europe offers a more laid-back lifestyle, increased trustworthiness, and stronger sense of community compared to the US.
Dating in Croatia as a foreigner can be challenging, with Croatian men often not taking dating too seriously and prioritizing other aspects of their lives.
Deep dives
Life in Europe and the Motivation to Move
The podcast episode explores the experience of an American who left the US and moved to Europe, specifically Croatia. The guest shares her initial motivation for moving to Europe, which stemmed from her study abroad in London and her desire for new experiences and different cultures. Eventually, she decided to relocate to Croatia after backpacking around Europe and falling in love with the country. The guest discusses the differences she noticed between life in the US and Croatia, including the more laid-back way of life in Croatia and the increased trustworthiness and helpfulness of people. She also highlights the unique housing situation in Croatia, where contracts can be unpredictable due to the influence of tourism. Overall, the guest emphasizes the positive aspects of living in Europe, such as the accessibility to travel, lower stress levels, and the strong sense of community and connection.
Dating and Relationship Experiences in Croatia
The podcast delves into the guest's experiences with dating in Croatia. She mentions that being a foreigner in Croatia might lead to people not taking dating too seriously. She highlights the tendency for Croatian men to make quick moves and profess commitment early on, but mentions that their behavior can change after a month or so. The guest mentions that there is a perception that Croatian men are not known for being faithful and that they prioritize other aspects of their lives, such as their friends and personal freedom. She compares this to the more mature, committed, and communicative approach she finds in German men. However, she acknowledges that her experiences are based on her individual interactions and that there can always be exceptions.
The Lifestyle and Mentality in Croatia
The podcast discusses the guest's positive experiences with the lifestyle and mentality in Croatia. She emphasizes the friendly and generous nature of Croatians, the focus on enjoying life and taking things at a slower pace, and the sense of community and trustworthiness. The guest appreciates the opportunities for travel within Europe and the practicality of living in Croatia. She also mentions the more relaxed approach to work and the lower stress levels compared to her experiences in the US. Overall, the guest values the authenticity, connection, and lower cost of living in Croatia.
Challenges and Surprises of Living in Europe
The podcast explores some challenges and surprises the guest encountered while living in Europe. She mentions the unpredictability of the housing market in Croatia, where contracts can be easily terminated due to tourism. The guest also highlights the contrasting communication styles she observed in different European cultures, with some being more direct and others being more ambiguous. She mentions the passionate and opinionated nature of people in the Balkan region and the need to adapt to the varying perspectives and behaviors. Additionally, she discusses the adjustment to the European mindset, where leisure and socializing are valued, and the importance of relationships and community support.
I sit down with Sage, who has left United States for Europe, specifically Croatia. We explore the driving factor behind the move from America, is life in Europe really better than that in the US and how is the Balkan mentality around making friends and dating.
Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.
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