

Get Romantically Involved With Your Best Friend | Liv Boeree & Igor Kurganov
Jan 24, 2025
Liv Boeree, a former poker champion and AI safety advocate, teams up with Igor Kurganov, a poker pro and effective altruism enthusiast. Together for a decade, they delve into their unique methods for handling conflict, like the playful 'hiss signal' for communication. Their conversation unpacks the evolution of attraction from physical looks to personality, along with reflections on parenthood and the significance of relationship rituals. With insights drawn from their dynamic journey, they champion rational decision-making in love.
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From Friends to Partners
- Liv Boeree and Igor Kurganov initially met at a poker tournament but didn't connect romantically for years.
- They became close friends before a yoga class sparked a shift in their dynamic.
Communication is Key
- Prioritize finding a partner with a compatible communication style, especially regarding conflict resolution.
- Direct and honest communication, even if aggressive, can be more effective than bottling up emotions.
Rethinking the Friend Zone
- Liv Boeree highlights the "friend zone" dilemma, suggesting women reconsider men they've initially categorized as friends.
- She believes potential partners might be overlooked due to premature labeling.