Masculine Leadership Starts in the Mirror with Chris Rodak

May 14, 2025

Chris Rodak, founder of Rising Father, shares his transformation from a directionless life to a disciplined leader. He dives into the importance of reclaiming masculinity and building trust through discipline. Discover his 'Hurricane vs. Lighthouse' analogy, emphasizing the role of steadfastness in relationships. Chris also discusses practical routines that foster emotional control and confidence, highlighting that true motivation is earned through consistent action. Learn how serving others can elevate personal growth while exploring upcoming projects, including a men's retreat.

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From Band Room To Business Bust And Rebuild

Chris Rodak recounted growing up in a crowded Catholic home and becoming a music teacher before pivoting into entrepreneurship.
He described cycles of getting shredded, gaining weight after marriage, and later building a profitable ad agency then losing it in COVID.

INSIGHT

Be The Lighthouse, Not The Hurricane

Aim to be a 'lighthouse'—a steady, principled man who radiates calm under storm.
That steady presence magnetizes people and requires long-term consistency, not shortcuts.

INSIGHT

Body Discipline Grounds Emotional Strength

Emotional problems in men often stem from physical undiscipline and broken habits.
Rebuilding physical routines creates the space to manage emotions and respond instead of react.

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This episode is for the man who knows he was made for more—but somewhere along the way, lost his edge.

Christine sits down with Chris Rodak, founder of Rising Father, for a powerful, no-fluff conversation on reclaiming masculinity, rebuilding self-trust, and becoming the kind of man your family can lean on. Chris opens up about his journey from undisciplined and uninspired to shredded, self-led, and spiritually grounded. Whether you're in a rut, feeling unmotivated, or just craving a new level of leadership in your marriage, your body, or your business—this one is packed with truth bombs and tactical takeaways.

Key Takeaways:

Why most men lose their fire—and how to get it back
How discipline in your body builds trust in your relationships
The “Hurricane vs. Lighthouse” analogy for masculine leadership
Why saying “no” is one of the most loving things a man can do
Chris’s “Fire List” practice for staying consistent and fired up
Why most men don’t need more motivation—they need better structure
How to go from being a passive participant to the trusted rock in your family

Notable Quotes:

“You don’t get the fire by waiting for it—you earn the fire by doing the work.” — Chris Rodak

“Your wife doesn’t want to nag you. She wants to relax into your leadership.” — Christine Jewell

“If you can’t say no to dessert, how will you say no to temptation when it matters most?” — Chris Rodak

“Suffering is optional. It starts when the outside world doesn’t match our expectations.” — Christine Jewell

“Don’t tell me what you know. Show me what you do.” — Christine Jewell

Ready to Stop Numbing and Start Leading?

If you’ve been drifting, distracted, or caught in cycles of inconsistency—this is your wake-up call. Listen now and start rebuilding the disciplines that will reignite your marriage, your purpose, and your power.

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