Focus on the Family with Jim Daly Best of 2025: How to Have Meaningful Conversations with Your Spouse
Dec 8, 2025
Heather Holleman, an author and professor, and her husband Ashley Holleman, executive director and ministry partner, join to delve into meaningful marital communication. They discuss the impact of cultural loneliness and how curiosity can transform relationships. With insights on servant-hearted conversations guided by Philippians 2, Heather shares four essential skills for caring dialogue. They also introduce the ‘Thursday folder’ concept for managing conflict and offer practical tips to strengthen connections, emphasizing the importance of intentional care in marriage.
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Culture Of Monologuing Breeds Loneliness
- The culture has shifted toward monologues and suspicion, leaving people lonely despite digital connection.
- Heather Holleman connects this to pandemic isolation and social media's performative communication.
Confession Led To Transformational Turning Points
- Heather confessed she was a controlling, nagging wife early in marriage and sought counseling.
- Believing the best about Ashley and joining CRU ministry transformed their marriage's purpose.
Express Liking Every Day
- Express liking daily by complimenting and admiring your spouse to change the communication climate.
- Use positive regard to reduce criticism and encourage growth.
