In this conversation, recorded the morning after the presidential election, comedy phenom Tig Notaro joins Jen and Amy (donned head to toe in black in mourning) to unpack the events of the day and to help them find their happy place in the world again, which she accomplishes with tactical success. By the end of the show, they’ve laughed so hard, they’ve forgotten most of their cares.

In this episode, Tig regales us with her journey as an Emmy and Grammy-nominated comedian, the influence of her free-spirited mother, and how her family dynamics (and a few hilarious stories from her boys) have shaped her comedy. She also reflects on her journey of authenticity, what it means to be an icon in the LGBTQ+ community, and the significance of being true to oneself.

In Rant or Rave, Jen and Amy muse about whether or not they have the chops to make it in stand-up, and we learn that Amy definitely has a deep well of material at her disposal. Speaking of which, be sure to listen for Tig’s story about the weirdest gig she’s ever performed!

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Thought-provoking Quotes:

One of the things my mother told me growing up was to tell everyone to go to hell if they had a problem with me. And I certainly do not walk around telling everyone to go to hell but I think there’s this thing in me, whether you know I was told that or not, I think people can tell that I don’t have a desperation and I’m not going to do backflips for anybody. – Tig Notaro

I didn’t bust out of the closet. I went through my own process of figuring things out. I wasn’t born knowing I was gay. When I did come out, it was just an authentic feeling and decision of, this is who I am. – Tig Notaro

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

Annette Benning - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000906/

John Travolta - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000237

Cher - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000333

Olivia Coleman - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm1469236/

Broadchurch - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2249364/

Wicked Little Letters - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt20234774/

Taika Waititi - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0169806/

Ryan Reynolds - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0005351

Denzel Washington - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000243

Julia Roberts - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000210

Notting Hill - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0125439

Jason Bateman - https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000867

Smartless Docuseries - https://play.max.com/show/f8c800e3-7639-4883-a0f1-8eb5adbb5ced

I’m Just a Person by Tig Notaro - https://amzn.to/3ZjlfQY

Tig: A Netflix Documentary - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt3986532/

One Mississippi TV series - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4947608/

Under a Rock with Tig Notaro - https://www.amazon.com/Under-Rock-Tig-Notaro/dp/B07SJZ4TKM

Kevin Nealon - https://www.instagram.com/kevinnealon/

This American Life with Ira Glass - https://www.thisamericanlife.org/

Star Trek: Discovery - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt5171438/

Hello Again - https://www.amazon.com/Tig-Notaro-Hello-Again/dp/B0CV4FNJ27

Guest’s Links:

Tig’s website - https://tignation.com/

Tig’s Twitter - https://x.com/tignotaro

Tig’s Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/tignotarocomedy/

Tig’s YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=tig+notaro

Handsome Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/handsome/id1702258458

Don’t Ask Tig Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dont-ask-tig/id1523507379

Connect with Jen!

Jen’s website - https://jenhatmaker.com/

Jen’s Instagram - https://instagram.com/jenhatmaker

Jen’s Twitter - https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/

Jen’s Facebook - https://facebook.com/jenhatmaker

Jen’s YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker

Jen’s Holiday Gift Guide - https://shop.jenhatmaker.com/pages/gift-guide

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