New Problems and New Directions With Dr. Barbara Holmes and Brian McLaren
May 22, 2024
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In this engaging discussion, Dr. Barbara Holmes, a scholar of African American spirituality, and Brian McLaren, an advocate for inclusive Christianity, delve into the transformative journey of life. They explore how experiences of loss can foster personal growth and renewal. Topics include the quest for deeper connection in uncertain times, the importance of solitude, and the balance between ego and soul needs. They also reflect on navigating community expectations and the power of contemplative practices amidst grief. Prepare for insights that inspire a richer understanding of life's complexities!
The journey of transformation and renewal in life involves embracing challenges as opportunities for deeper self-discovery and meaningful endeavors.
A significant distinction is made between ego needs prioritized by institutions and soul needs that focus on deeper existential fulfillment for personal growth.
The concept of 'double belonging' allows individuals to draw wisdom from diverse communities, enriching their spiritual journeys without sacrificing original affiliations.
Deep dives
The Meaning of Real Work
The concept of 'real work' is emphasized as a journey of self-discovery and transformation. It suggests that moments of confusion or uncertainty often signify the beginning of true vocational exploration. This is illustrated through Wendell Berry's poem, which reflects the idea that challenges and shifts in life may lead one toward deeper, more meaningful endeavors. Embracing imperfections and learning to love reality from a contemplative perspective is essential for navigating the second half of life.
Ego Needs vs. Soul Needs
A critical distinction is made between ego needs, which are often prioritized by institutions, and soul needs, which pertain to deeper, existential questions. While institutions focus on maintaining their existence and structure, individuals can also find themselves trapped in the pursuit of ego gratification rather than spiritual fulfillment. Examples are drawn from those in the first half of life who begin to incorporate practices like retreats or forest bathing to foster connection with their inner selves. This interplay between stages suggests that everyone can benefit from cultivating a balance between material achievements and spiritual growth.
Loneliness and Solitude
The experience of loneliness is explored alongside the concept of solitude, highlighting how encounters with loneliness can lead to deeper self-awareness and understanding. Many people transition into the second half of life and often navigate feelings of disconnection from others as their journeys become less conventional. Yet, this state can provide fertile ground for personal growth and a richer life experience. Embracing solitude can allow individuals to tap into a more profound connection with themselves, fostering the capacity for gift love rather than codependency.
Double Belonging and Community
The idea of 'double belonging' is presented, where individuals feel themselves part of multiple communities that do not always align with one another. This concept suggests that belonging to one group may not fulfill all needs, and thus individuals may draw wisdom from various traditions and experiences. Meaningful relationships can emerge from these diverse connections, allowing individuals to explore deeper spiritual insights without sacrificing their original affiliations. This multiplicity enriches spiritual journeys as one finds inspiration and guidance in unexpected places.
Contemplative Practices in Daily Life
The role of contemplative practices in shaping personal and communal experiences is discussed as essential for deepening one's spiritual life. Through contemplation, individuals can find a balance between the tension of loss and the potential for renewal in their lives. Engaging with their inner realities allows for profound insights into both their personal and collective experiences, enhancing empathy for others. By cultivating a contemplative mindset, individuals are better positioned to navigate life's transitions and uncertainties with grace and resilience.
How has the interplay between gain and loss shaped your life's journey, and what new possibilities does this open up for you now?
In this episode, we're joined by two members of the CAC faculty Dr. Barbara Holmes and Brian McLaren as we continue our chapter-by-chapter exploration of Falling Upward with Chapter 12: "New Problems and New Directions." In this conversation, we explore the continuous journey of transformation and renewal throughout all stages of life, reflecting on personal experiences, the rhythms of loss and gain, and the deep wisdom that guides us through both the first and second halves of life. Before we dive in to the interview with Barbara and Brian, CAC staff members Mike Petrow and Paul Swanson catch up with Richard at his hermitage to hear his reflections on the twelfth chapter a decade after he originally wrote it.
About the guests:
Dr. Barbara Holmesis a scholar of African American spirituality and mysticism. Dr. Barbara Holmes reveals how the cosmos can expand our limited constructs of religion, race, and power. As faculty at the Center for Action and Contemplation, she teaches how God’s communal presence can inspire imagination and wisdom, especially in times of crisis. She is the author of Race and the Cosmos,Joy Unspeakable, and Crisis Contemplation. She hosts CAC's podcast The Cosmic We.
Brian McLarenis the Dean of CAC Faculty. As a former evangelical pastor, Brian is a champion for a more loving, inclusive and contemplative Christianity. A faculty member at the Center for Action and Contemplation, he teaches ways to reconnect with the message Jesus lived and died for—unconditional love. He is the author of Faith After Doubt, The Great Spiritual Migration, and most recently, Life After Doom. He hosts CAC’s podcast Learning How to See.
Resources:
A PDF of the transcript for this episode is available here.
Grab a copy of the newly revised version of Falling Upward, with a new foreword by Brené Brown here.
To learn more about Dr. Barbara Holmes, visit her website here.
To learn more about Brian McLaren, visit his website here.
Grab a copy of Brian's latest book, Life After Doom, here.
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