Ep 212 Navigating ADHD in Relationships: Insights from Dr. Tamara Rosier Part 2

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In this episode, Dr. Tamara Rosier, author of 'You, Me, and Our ADHD Family,' shares valuable insights on managing life with ADHD. She discusses emotional regulation, self-awareness, and strategic support, highlighting the pitfalls of following every emotion. She also explores the complexities of romantic relationships involving ADHD, focusing on the importance of personal growth and setting boundaries. The episode concludes with a discussion on the benefits of ADHD coaching, emphasizing its forward-focused and practical problem-solving approach. Listeners are left with a message of hope and the importance of becoming a safe person for others.

00:00 Introduction 
00:29 The Scorpion and the Skunk Analogy
01:21 Emotional Errors and Big Emotions
06:02 Navigating Romantic Relationships with ADHD
07:52 Misguided Empathy in Relationships
09:15 Advice for Those in Challenging Relationships
19:04 ADHD Coaching and Therapy
25:43 Conclusion and Key Takeaways

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