In this podcast, they discuss why men struggle with decision-making, including last-minute decisions, over-reliance on past experiences, and following the crowd. They emphasize the importance of making firm commitments, prioritizing health over material possessions, and embracing uncomfortable conversations for personal growth.
Men need a structured approach like the WOOP framework for decision-making in business and relationships.
Learning to trust internal judgment and not relying solely on past negative experiences is crucial for refining decision-making processes.
Deep dives
Importance of Setting Clear Goals for Decision Making
Making decisions as a man to lead in business or improve relationships requires clear goals and direction. Facing challenges such as indecisiveness, the necessity to start somewhere becomes apparent. Men need a structured approach like the WOOP framework - Wish, Obstacles, Outcome, Plan - to navigate decision-making with purpose and intent.
Overreliance on Past Experiences for Decision Making
Using past negative experiences as the sole predictor of future decisions can hinder progress. Learning to trust internal judgment and taking lessons from mishaps to refine decision-making processes is crucial. Overcoming fear of repeated mistakes involves recognizing the value of micro adversity and growth in decision-making.
Challenges of Peer Pressure and Seeking External Validation
Men often make decisions based on external influences like peer pressure or seeking validation from others. Being swayed by the crowd can lead to feelings of inauthenticity and lack of personal integrity. Embracing individuality and learning how to make choices aligned with personal values are essential for overcoming external pressures.
Committing to Decisiveness and Avoiding Indecisiveness
Committing to decisions and avoiding wavering on choices showcases personal strength and decisiveness. Indecisiveness can indicate a lack of commitment and trust in oneself. Making a decision with conviction and sticking to it demonstrates integrity and personal growth in navigating challenges.
Ask us a question & we'll answer on the show (click here to msg us)One of the things that we’ve noticed in coaching, even in speaking to many men is that men come to coaching to make decisions.In this podcast episode we’re going to talk in depth about making decisions and how namely MEN make decisions.Potentially “bad” ways to make or not make decisionWhy men struggleHere are some of what we cover.Last minute:Easier choice:Ask enough people:Over reliance on past experiences:No time frame:...
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