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Play Therapy Parenting Podcast

The Art Of Understanding Children: A "Back To Basics" Refresher Of The Play Therapy Parenting Model

Nov 1, 2023
This episode of the Play Therapy Parenting Podcast takes a deep dive into the foundations of the child-centered play therapy model. It emphasizes the importance of understanding that children are driven by emotions, not cognitive reasoning. The podcast discusses building self-esteem and encouraging independence, repairing relationships through apologies and responsibility, and provides practical applications of the model. The episode concludes by highlighting the charity organization Hope Children's Home.
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Quick takeaways

  • Children are driven by emotions, not cognitive reasoning, so parents should meet them where they are emotionally and understand that rationality is beyond their developmental capabilities.
  • The parent-child relationship is more important than any individual behavior, skill, or challenge, and can be enhanced by reflecting feelings, choice giving, limit setting, and encouragement.

Deep dives

Foundation: Kids are not rational

Kids are not rational, and it is important for parents to understand this. Children do not have the cognitive capacity to process information on an intellectual level until around the age of 13. Therefore, expecting them to engage in long discussions, comprehend lectures, or answer complex questions is futile. Children live in their emotions, not in their heads, so trying to force them to think and reason leads to frustration for both parents and children. It is crucial for parents to meet children where they are emotionally and accept that rationality is beyond their developmental capabilities.

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