The Suzanne Venker Show 146. Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?: Quit Porn Strategist King David
"King David" is a young man with a big dream: to burn down the $97 billion worldwide porn industry, one man at a time.
King David is the world’s only Quit Porn Strategist. His history with porn dates to his teenage years and before; and though he's out of his teens now, every year more young men are still discovering the world of porn. David wants to help them find the exit. His website is https://enroll.quitpornstrategies.com/.
IN THIS EPISODE:
3:25 David's story
19:30 Porn is a drug
21:00 Porn increases dopamine and is a super-stimulus, which is why it's so appealing
25:25 You don't watch porn because you're horny; you watch it because you're hurting
25:40 There's a difference between wanting to have sex and wanting to watch porn
28:20 Asking yourself why and getting to the root of it is crucial to get rid of any addiction
30:00 You have to actually VOCALIZE to yourself about why you want to watch porn
35:00 Young men growing up w/ porn do not realize that that's not what sex with a woman is truly like
35:40 How porn changes your view of sex and women
38:30 Women feel like they're being objectified when their man uses porn
39:40 How can a husband determine if he’s done w/ porn for good? And how will a woman know when he really is done watching porn?
42:00 Men and women need to understand what each other needs sexually
44:50 If you're married and you have to think about porn when you have sex, you have a problem!
46:10 It is NOT TRUE that porn is good for you and your relationship
47:00 38% of millennial women (under 40) have experienced choking, gagging, or spitting during consensual intercourse
49:00 With porn you always need more “exciting” and “more extreme”
50:20 There's no communication in porn
51:50 One-third of all porn viewers are women
52:30 Women need to know that men don’t turn to porn because YOU as a woman lack something
56:40 Couples need to communicate about sex
59:00 David's 31-day Quit Porn Mastery Program