Kuldrin's Krypt A BDSM 101 Podcast BDSM Etiquette Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31
Sep 23, 2021
01:33:49
Recorded: 2/7/2021 / Published: 9/23/2021
In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2.
Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
1: Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
2: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
3: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
“BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31”
A brief recap:
The dictionary defines Manners as:
Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
The socially correct way of acting.
Manners really are important no matter what lifestyle you lead, it is the basic common courtesies which most people learn as they grow up. The please and thank you, not speaking with a mouthful of food, not interrupting a conversation, etc. All things that should apply in all situations.
Protocols and Etiquette, though related to good manners, are really what many people associate with our lifestyle, and many scene people place great importance on both.
What is a Protocol? What is Etiquette?
Protocol is defined as:
A code of correct conduct
The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:
Etiquette is defined as:
Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations
From these definitions, it is obvious that protocols are more widely recognized as being official behavior, whereas etiquette is predominantly social behavior, but the basic element is the same, they are about correct behavior in certain situations.”
The difference between a title and honorific.
Title: an earned position that has been granted by another.
Honorific: a name used by a subordinate as a sign of respect and to recognize the difference in position and status.
Let’s start at the beginning, introducing yourself?
Public mixed playspaces
Private/home/dark parties
Charity events
Dom to Dom Interactions
Negotiating play with a partner, sub, or slave
Post scene communication
Dom to another’s sub or slave or to someone not collared?
Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/331
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
- Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
- Master Producer ($50/month):
- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, and BxB
- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, and Gizmo
- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Lilly, Brodie, and The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast
Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource
In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2.
Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.
1: Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )
2: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
3: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young
“BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31”
A brief recap:
The dictionary defines Manners as:
Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.
A way of acting, bearing, or behavior
The socially correct way of acting.
Manners really are important no matter what lifestyle you lead, it is the basic common courtesies which most people learn as they grow up. The please and thank you, not speaking with a mouthful of food, not interrupting a conversation, etc. All things that should apply in all situations.
Protocols and Etiquette, though related to good manners, are really what many people associate with our lifestyle, and many scene people place great importance on both.
What is a Protocol? What is Etiquette?
Protocol is defined as:
A code of correct conduct
The system of rules and acceptable behavior used at official ceremonies and occasions:
Etiquette is defined as:
Conventional requirements as to social behavior.
The set of rules or customs which control accepted behavior in particular social groups or social situations
From these definitions, it is obvious that protocols are more widely recognized as being official behavior, whereas etiquette is predominantly social behavior, but the basic element is the same, they are about correct behavior in certain situations.”
The difference between a title and honorific.
Title: an earned position that has been granted by another.
Honorific: a name used by a subordinate as a sign of respect and to recognize the difference in position and status.
Let’s start at the beginning, introducing yourself?
Public mixed playspaces
Private/home/dark parties
Charity events
Dom to Dom Interactions
Negotiating play with a partner, sub, or slave
Post scene communication
Dom to another’s sub or slave or to someone not collared?
Important Links:
Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/331
National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic
Show Producers:
- Benefactor ($2,000/month):
- Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92
- Master Producer ($50/month):
- Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, slave Brendan, and Just_Call_Me_Ash
- Sr. Producers ($10/month): xEmeraldxWolfx, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, RoxieBear, Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&Sir, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, TwistedTink&JustTommy, ArtKitten, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, CJ, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Thorn, Toredon, Cap'n J, and BxB
- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, CIVLdisobedience, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69time, Atsila, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, CozyCow, Arctic Foxglove, Anomalous Mats, MsRedSin & AJRJ, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Anthony, Gator, and Gizmo
- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Lilly, Brodie, and The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast
Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)
- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.
- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories
- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist
- Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13
- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zbTsAuBKTy4 )
Contact info:
Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.com
Fetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275
Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fire
Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrin
Instagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/
Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt
http://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource