

It's in the Code Ep 130: “The Virgin Fetish”
16 snips Jan 22, 2025
This discussion digs deep into the obsession with virginity in high-control conservative Christianity. It highlights how ideals of purity disproportionately target women, creating a transactional view of their sexuality. The conversation critiques the societal pressures and damaging metaphors tied to virginity, revealing a patriarchal foundation that limits women's autonomy. Explore the contradictions within these beliefs and how they serve as tools for control, affecting women's identities and agency in profound ways.
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Virginity as a Core Concept
- Virginity is a central concept in high-control Christian sex and gender ideology, often called purity culture.
- It emphasizes abstinence until marriage as the ultimate proof of faithfulness to God's design.
Gendered Virginity
- While virginity technically applies to both men and women, the focus is heavily on female virginity.
- This stems from historical Christian views and the idea that women can be physically 'marked' by pregnancy.
Virginity as a Reward
- The focus on virginity ties into the predatory view of male sexuality in this ideology.
- A virginal woman becomes the 'reward' for men who suppress their natural urges.