The Ramsey Show Highlights My Husband Is So Controlling I Can't Even Access Money To Leave Him
Aug 1, 2025
A woman shares her two-decade experience with a controlling husband, highlighting the emotional toll of financial abuse. The conversation delves into communication struggles and the impact of financial strain on their marriage, especially after the birth of twins. Experts discuss recognizing the signs of control and the importance of seeking help. The focus shifts to finding financial independence, emphasizing empowerment through managing money, as she contemplates legal options to escape her situation.
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Ellie's Controlling Marriage Story
- Ellie describes her 20-year marriage with a controlling husband who controls all finances and allowances.
- She highlights the lack of financial communication and his very black-and-white, literal approach to money and life.
Express Feelings Clearly to Husband
- Dave Ramsey advises Ellie to express clearly how unsafe she feels and that she has one foot out the door.
- He suggests communicating directly that the current marriage dynamics are untenable and need to change.
Take Practical Steps to Leave
- Dave urges Ellie to stop making excuses and take practical steps to leave, including consulting attorneys and gaining financial independence.
- He emphasizes opening direct deposit to her account and finding a way to pay legal fees without waiting for permission.