The Moth The Moth Podcast: Pride and Family
Jun 20, 2025
Chris Conde, a Queer Brooklyn rapper known for his raw and introspective hip-hop, shares his journey of self-acceptance and the power of friendship in the drag community. Carly Spotts-Falzone, a licensed mental health therapist, reflects on her upbringing with two dads and the importance of family dynamics in shaping identity. The conversation highlights the richness of LGBTQ+ relationships, the transformative nature of storytelling, and celebrates queer artistry and pride through personal and empowering narratives.
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Anniversary Ring Lost in Lagoon
- Gary and Roger celebrated their 20th anniversary by marrying at Biscayne National Park with friend officiants while wearing casual attire.
- The perfect moment was lost when Gary's new tungsten ring slipped into the lagoon, leaving the photo with a sea star as their only evidence.
Life With Two Dads
- Carly grew up with two dads, the first gay couple to adopt jointly in Los Angeles during a politically lukewarm era.
- Despite gossip and bias, her family offered so much love it contradicted all outside negativity, teaching her to ignore harmful talk.
Sobriety and Queer Found Family
- Chris struggled with addiction linked to deep internalized homophobia and isolation until a sober, gay friend introduced him to sobriety through drag.
- Makeup and drag gave him confidence and connection, helping him embrace his queer self and create a supportive, sober drag family.